Tuesday, April 04, 2006
Tax Language In Settlement Agreements – Is It Binding [On Whom]?
However, is this language binding and, if so, on whom – the parties; the court; the state taxing authorities; the IRS? Read this interesting article to find out.
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Monday, April 03, 2006
The FBI Is Watching You And Your Bagels, Doughnuts And Fruitcakes!
Remember, Florida Rules for Certified and Court-Appointed Mediators provides:
Rule 10.330(c) Impartiality, Gifts and Solicitation.
A mediator shall neither give nor accept a gift, favor, loan, or other item of value in any mediation process. During the mediation process, a mediator shall not solicit or otherwise attempt to procure future professional services.
The Committee Notes suggest that subdivision (c) does not preclude a mediator from giving or accepting de minimis gifts or incidental items provided to facilitate the mediation.
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Thursday, March 30, 2006
MEAC Opinion 2005-005 Now Online!
1. While a mediation unit is not a mediator per se, many of the communications made to the mediation unit would be included under the umbrella of confidentiality. Each co-mediator is to be treated as a mediator subject to the Florida Mediation Confidentiality and Privilege Act. The Committee declines to answer the question whether the party breached confidentiality as being beyond its jurisdiction.
2 and 3. Assuming the party has affirmatively requested that the complaint be handled at the trial court level, the mediator may reveal mediation communications to the mediation office charged with investigating the conduct.
4. Revelations made by a mediator in furtherance of a grievance investigation should be kept in a separate file independent from the court file.
5. The relationship described in the question would not necessarily be a “clear conflict” requiring the withdrawal of the mediator regardless of the express agreement of the parties. However, if the mediator is no longer impartial or the parties request that the mediator no longer continue, the mediator is required to withdraw from the mediation.
6. A different mediator within the mediation unit may mediate if all parties, being aware of the relationship, are agreeable to proceeding.
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Wednesday, March 29, 2006
Mediators Are Critical Thinkers Too!
Take a look, I’ll think you’ll enjoy it! It’s a PDF download.
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Tuesday, March 28, 2006
Clarence Darrow And Mediation
He concluded with:
“When lawyers and courts, and laymen, accept the scientific theory which the physicians forced upon the world long years ago, then men will examine each so-called delinquency until they discover its cause, and then learn how to remove the cause. This requires sympathy, humanity, love of one’s fellow-man, and a strong faith in the power of knowledge and experience to conquer the maladies of men. The forum of the lawyers may then grow smaller, the courthouse may lose its spell, but the world will profit a thousand fold by a kindlier and more understanding relation toward all humankind.”
After reading the article, don’t you think he was actually making an argument in favor of mediation?
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Monday, March 27, 2006
Structured Settlements – Tell Me More!
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Friday, March 24, 2006
Intervention In Mediation – Is It Appropriate?
Florida Rules for Certified and Court-Appointed Mediators, Rule 10.320, Nonparticipating Persons states that “[a] mediator shall promote awareness by the parties of the interests of persons affected by actual or potential agreements who are not represented at mediation.”
After you read the article, think about whether this rule would adequately address the concerns of the “intervenors”. Remember, during training, one of the Mediation Process and Techniques learning objectives was to “[i]dentify individuals who are entitled to participate in the mediation conference as well as those non-parties who may need to be present. . . .”
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Thursday, March 23, 2006
Florida Supreme Court’s New Rules Regulating The Florida Bar Impacts Mediators And Other Third-Party Neutrals!
Rule 4-2.4 Lawyer Serving As Third-Party Neutral provides:
(a) A lawyer serves as a third-party neutral when the lawyer assists 2 or more persons who are not clients of the lawyer to reach a resolution of a dispute or other matter that has arisen between them. Service as a third-party neutral may include service as an arbitrator, a mediator, or in such other capacity as will enable the lawyer to assist the parties to resolve the matter.
(b) A lawyer serving as a third-party neutral shall inform unrepresented parties that the lawyer is not representing them. When the lawyer knows or reasonably should know that a party does not understand the lawyer's role in the matter, the lawyer shall explain the difference between the lawyer's role as a third-party neutral and a lawyer's role as one who represents a client.
So, what additional language will you be including in your mediation confirmation [or engagement] letter? You do use one, right?
Also, the Comments [which are very interesting] to each of the above rules specifically state that “[a] Florida Bar member who is a certified mediator is governed by the applicable law and rules relating to certified mediators”. [Emphasis added.] This blends nicely with Florida Rules for Certified and Court-Appointed Mediators, Rule 10.650 Concurrent Standards:
“Other ethical standards to which a mediator may be professionally bound are not abrogated by these rules. In the course of performing mediation services, however, these rules prevail over any conflicting ethical standards to which a mediator may otherwise be bound.”
All to say, this opinion is a must read!
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Wednesday, March 22, 2006
“Get Involved And Just Enforce It!”
Rather than enforcing the various provisions of the agreement, after an evidentiary hearing, the trial court concluded that the mediation agreement did not constitute a “real meeting of the minds” of the parties and upon that basis invalidated the agreement in its entirety.
Not so fast held the appellate court. “Although the mediation agreement was ambiguous in some respects, the parties agreed upon the essential terms and intended the mediation agreement to be binding upon them.” It was incumbent upon the trial court to resolve any ambiguities.
What could the mediator have done differently during the agreement drafting phase of the mediation conference? As always, the devil is in the details!
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Tuesday, March 21, 2006
“What Conflict? I’m Impartial!”
(a) Generally. A mediator shall maintain impartiality throughout the mediation process. Impartiality means freedom from favoritism or bias in word, action, or appearance, and includes a commitment to assist all parties, as opposed to any one individual.
(b) Withdrawal for Partiality. A mediator shall withdraw from mediation if the mediator is no longer impartial. [The objective standard with emphasis added.]
and the connection to
Rule 10.340, Conflicts of Interest
(a) Generally. A mediator shall not mediate a matter that presents a clear or undisclosed conflict of interest. A conflict of interest arises when any relationship between the mediator and the mediation participants or the subject matter of the dispute compromises or appears to compromise the mediator’s impartiality.
(b) Burden of Disclosure. The burden of disclosure of any potential conflict of interest rests on the mediator. Disclosure shall be made as soon as practical after the mediator becomes aware of the interest or relationship giving rise to the potential conflict of interest.
(c) Effect of Disclosure. After appropriate disclosure, the mediator may serve if all parties agree. However, if a conflict of interest clearly impairs a mediator’s impartiality, the mediator shall withdraw regardless of the express agreement of the parties.
The fundamental question is would a reasonable person conclude that the undisclosed circumstances would tend to bias the judgment [substitute “conduct”] of a neutral arbitrator [substitute “mediator”].
Since impartiality is the number one grievance filed against Florida mediators, this case gives us something to think about – don’t you think?
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Monday, March 20, 2006
Perceptions Can Equal Misconceptions And Vice Versa
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Wednesday, March 15, 2006
Mediating With Detective Vic Mackey
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Tuesday, March 14, 2006
“Now That I’m Retired, I Have Time To Meditate!”
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Monday, March 13, 2006
“So, What Goodies Do You Have To Offer?”
comments are fun too!
What do you offer mediation participants?
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Friday, March 10, 2006
If It’s In Black And White, It Must Be . . . Gray!
The mediation agreement provided that it is “intended to be a full, final and binding settlement of all issues” in the case and that there had “been full and complete disclosure of all marital assets and liabilities.”
The day after the court entered an order approving the mediation agreement, the Wife filed a motion to set the agreement aside claiming, among other things, that there had been no “full and frank disclosure” of the assets because the Husband had not filed a financial affidavit. In a second motion to set aside the mediation agreement the Wife alleged that the mediation left her “physically and emotionally exhausted” and that a financial affidavit was mandatory because the mediation agreement contemplated “permanent financial relief.”
Context is important. Florida Family Law Rules of Procedure, Rule 12.285(a)(1) requires the filing of a financial affidavit, a “requirement [that] cannot be waived by the parties.”
All to say, just because the mediation agreement recites that there was full disclosure, in the absence of the filing of a financial affidavit what appears to be black and white is, well – gray! Be careful in drafting the mediation agreement. Mediators have an ethical obligation to the parties in “assisting the parties in reaching informed and voluntary decisions while protecting their right of self-determination,” Florida Rules for Certified and Court-Appointed Mediators, Rule 10.310(a), Self-Determination, Decision-making, and further, “[a] mediator shall not intentionally or knowingly misrepresent any material fact or circumstance in the course of conducting a mediation,” Florida Rules for Certified and Court-Appointed Mediators, Rule 10.310(c), Misrepresentation prohibited.
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Thursday, March 09, 2006
You’re A Mediator – Are You A Mind Reader Too?
According to this article [which contains a couple of interesting exercises] in CIO, accurately interpreting the meanings of nonverbal communications, especially facial expressions, is a skill that can make you more effective in your leadership role and then you can decide whether and how to act on the information you obtain just from reading faces.
Imagine that!
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Wednesday, March 08, 2006
Mediator Testifies As To Party Capacity!
The Husband moved to enforce a handwritten mediation agreement which the Wife and Husband and their counsel signed or initialed, when the Wife attempted to repudiate the longhand agreement, arguing that it was not enforceable because of duress, lack of capacity, and that it was not intended to be an enforceable agreement.
The trial court held a hearing at which the mediator testified that Wife's mental condition did not appear impaired during the mediation. The appellate court found that the mediator in this case was careful not to testify to statements or assertive conduct made by Wife. She did not disclose confidential information or attempt to prove liability via conduct or statements made in the course of the mediation. The trial court then enforced the agreement and this was affirmed on appeal.
Florida Rules for Certified and Court-Appointed Mediators, Rule 10.310 (d), Self-Determination, Postponement or Cancellation provides that “If, for any reason, a party is unable to freely exercise self-determination, a mediator shall cancel or postpone a mediation.”
Florida Rules for Certified and Court-Appointed Mediators, Rule 10.420(b), Conduct of Mediation, Adjournment or Termination, provides that
A mediator shall:
(1) adjourn the mediation upon agreement of the parties;
(2) adjourn or terminate any mediation which, if continued, would result in unreasonable emotional or monetary costs to the parties;
(3) adjourn or terminate the mediation if the mediator believes the case is unsuitable for mediation or any party is unable or unwilling to participate meaningfully in the process;
(4) terminate a mediation entailing fraud, duress, the absence of bargaining ability, or unconscionability; and
(5) terminate any mediation if the physical safety of any person is endangered by the continuation of mediation.
[Emphasis added.]
While we’re to be non-judgmental as between the parties, aren’t mediators making “judgment calls” all the time? Take a look at how the mediator was permitted to testify and reconcile the testimony with the above rules.
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Tuesday, March 07, 2006
The Need For Tweaking Can Be Fatal!
All mediators should read the New Jersey opinion Lehr v. Afflitto, 2006 N.J. Super. LEXIS 8 (N.J. App. 2006). It’s a long one, full of good lessons on a variety of topics [i.e. mediator’s opening statement, mediator responsibilities to the court, confidentiality and waiver, party remorse, clarity of communication, right to attorney review of agreements, plus more] and well worth reading!
The divorcing couple was ordered to mediation which occurred over two sessions and resulted in a memorandum of understanding [MOU] written by the mediator, who acknowledged “tweaking” was necessary on several issues. The plaintiff represented to the court that the matter was completely settled in mediation. Notwithstanding the fact that everyone agreed that the parties never created nor signed a property settlement agreement, the court used the mediator’s MOU as proof that the divorce was resolved and entered judgment. The defendant appealed.
The Appeals Court held that admission of the mediator’s MOU was error since the parties never waived their right for the mediation to remain confidential. The Appeals Court also held that there was no settlement because certain financial issues were left unresolved, showing a lacking of a final agreement. The mediator did not make a report to the court as required by the court order.
The appellate court viewed the trial judge’s taking testimony from the mediator with disappointment and said that “confidentiality of the mediation process is a matter of great public and systemic importance.” The court identified several bases for confidentiality in mediation: terms in the court order to mediate; the mediator’s oral statements to the parties; applicable court rules; and principles of the Uniform Mediation Act which the court stated was an “appropriate analytical framework” even though the UMA was not in force during the time in question.
So, after reading the opinion, how will you conduct your next mediation?
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Tuesday, February 28, 2006
“If You Had Only Told Me!” – A Defense To Sanctions
The mediator, appellant’s counsel and party representatives all traveled to the site of the mediation. Nazar did not appear for the scheduled mediation. Attorney Capua did not appear in person for the mediation, although he attempted to appear by telephone. While no motion was filed with the court seeking to be excused from the personal appearance requirement, Capua contacted the mediator's office and sought to be excused from appearing personally at the mediation [not a good move]. The mediator did not excuse [this was a good move] the personal appearance of either Capua or Paul Nazar due to the court’s order which expressly stated that personal attendance can only be excused by the court.
To learn what reasons were given for not appearing and what the sanctions were, read the opinion. It’s a quick read.
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Monday, February 27, 2006
I’m A Better Decision Maker When I’m Unconscious!
So, the next time you hear a party say “I’d like to sleep on it overnight” [allowing unconscious thought to kick in], you just might suppose that has some value – or not [depending on . . . .].
Think about it [pun intended] – have you ever awakened with a great idea or a solution to a problem?!?
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Friday, February 24, 2006
President Bush On Mediation – What Did He Say?!?
“Q: Mr. President, in your speech, you talked about the Kashmir dispute and you said that you would like India and Pakistan to take bilateral steps to resolve the dispute. Pakistan has made certain proposals, but they are not reciprocated by India. And it seems that this bilateral process is not going anywhere. There’s need for a third-party mediation or some sort of help. Do you have any specific proposals for that?
Bush: First, I’d like to make sure I clarify my statement for all to read. America supports a solution that is acceptable to all sides — since you’re probably the only person in the room that paid attention to my speech. In the speech, as you know, I said “to both sides”. The language should be “all sides”, because it recognises [sic] that a solution must be acceptable to India, Pakistan and those living within Kashmir. Our position is one that says a dispute that has been so long in a nation’s history can best be resolved when two nations make the determination to sit down and come up with a solution that is acceptable to all sides. Of course, during my discussions, I will encourage that dialogue to go forward. I’m convinced that history changes, and as history changes, attitudes can change, circumstances change, and that we have a possibility to see this issue resolved by strong and courageous leaders. I’m pleased to see the amount of trade that’s taking place between India and Pakistan. It’s a substantial increase from July of ‘04 to July of ‘05. I thought that the — the new transportation routes between India and Pakistan are hopeful signs. And so the role of the United States, in our judgment, is one that will help lead to a settlement that is acceptable to all sides.”
What?!?
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Thursday, February 23, 2006
If It Looks, Walks And Quacks Like A Duck – It’s Not Mediation! It’s A Duck!
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Wednesday, February 22, 2006
It’s Not What It Seems
Remember, Florida’s Rules for Certified and Court-Appointed Mediators, Rule 10.320, Nonparticipating Persons, provides “A mediator shall promote awareness by the parties of the interests of persons affected by actual or potential agreements who are not represented at mediation.”
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Tuesday, February 21, 2006
The Impartiality Hokey-Pokey!
The judge voluntarily disclosed a personal or social relationship with some of the witnesses [a good move], invited the parties to make a motion for disqualification [another good move], suggested it would be granted [an even better move] but then denied the timely motion [a very bad move]. The appellate court did not believe that the trial judge’s voluntary disclosure of his friendship or acquaintance with some of the witnesses who might testify at trial in this matter was sufficient by itself to require the judge's disqualification. It was the judge’s remarks thereafter that lead to his disqualification.
What can mediators learn from this opinion?
Well, for starters how about Florida Rules for Certified and Court-Appointed Mediators, Rule 10.340(a) and (c), Conflicts of Interest?
(a) Generally. A mediator shall not mediate a matter that presents a clear or undisclosed conflict of interest. A conflict of interest arises when any relationship between the mediator and the mediation participants or the subject matter of the dispute compromises or appears to compromise the mediator’s impartiality.
(c) Effect of Disclosure. After appropriate disclosure, the mediator may serve if all parties agree. However, if a conflict of interest clearly impairs a mediator’s impartiality, the mediator shall withdraw regardless of the express agreement of the parties.
All to say, conflicts of interest and impartiality are closely connected [but you knew that, right?!?] and something we should always be attentive to.
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Monday, February 20, 2006
“E.T.” Is Barred From Mediation!
Florida Rules of Civil Procedure, Rule 1.720(b), Mediation Procedures – Sanctions for Failure to Appear, requires, among others, the appearance of the party or its representative having full authority to settle without further consultation or a representative of the insurance carrier for any insured party who is not such carrier’s outside counsel and who has full authority to settle up to the amount of the plaintiff’s last demand or policy limits, whichever is less, without further consultation.
So, the Judge’s order on the issue of authority to settle is consistent with the above rule. However, what do you think about that part of the order that requires the parties to stay in mediation until released by the mediator? Any ethical dilemmas here? How do you balance the mediator’s responsibilities to the court with the mediator’s responsibilities to the parties?
What about Florida Rules for Certified and Court-Appointed Mediators, Rule 10.420(b), Conduct of Mediation, Adjournment or Termination?
A mediator shall:
(1) adjourn the mediation upon agreement of the parties;
(2) adjourn or terminate any mediation which, if continued, would result in unreasonable emotional or monetary costs to the parties;
(3) adjourn or terminate the mediation if the mediator believes the case is unsuitable for mediation or any party is unable or unwilling to participate meaningfully in the process;
(4) terminate a mediation entailing fraud, duress, the absence of bargaining ability, or unconscionability; and
(5) terminate any mediation if the physical safety of any person is endangered by the continuation of mediation.
After considering this rule, would you mediate under this order or would you decline the appointment?
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Friday, February 17, 2006
Mediation Training Means Something!
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Thursday, February 16, 2006
Gender and Negotiation – Is There A Nexus?
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Wednesday, February 15, 2006
“Florida Mediator” Posts Are Now Available By E-mail!
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Tuesday, February 14, 2006
Am I Qualified To Be A Mediator? Part II.
You can watch a video of the argument or you can read the transcript. It’s quite interesting!
Now, we wait.
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Monday, February 13, 2006
Mediation Failed – What Do Parties Think About?
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Thursday, February 09, 2006
Florida Family Law Rules of Procedure Amended
This form must be used when anyone who is not a lawyer in good standing with The Florida Bar helps a party complete any Florida Family Law Form. The nonlawyer must complete this form and both the party and the nonlawyer are required to sign it before the nonlawyer assists the party in completing any Family Law Form.
This is important information for Family Law Mediators who are not lawyers. It would be helpful to read the opinion and the form itself in conjunction with MEAC Opinions 2000-009 and 2001-003. In summary, these opinions advise that “assisting pro se litigants with filling out forms approved by the Supreme Court of Florida after a mediated settlement agreement is not a per se violation of the mediation rules; however, caution should be exercised to ensure compliance with mediation rules and other professions’ standards of conduct.”
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Wednesday, February 08, 2006
A Written Mediation Agreement – Why Bother?
Florida Rules for Certified and Court-Appointed Mediators, Rule 10.370, Professional Advice Or Opinions, (b) Independent Legal Advice, provides “When a mediator believes a party does not understand or appreciate how an agreement may adversely affect legal rights or obligations, the mediator shall advise the party of the right to seek independent legal counsel.”
In the Fourth District Court of Appeal case of Matos v. Matos, 2006 Fla. App. LEXIS 1162 [Fla. 4th DCA 2006], the pro se parties went to a lawyer-mediator to work out a “settlement.” The husband moved to enforce the oral “marital settlement agreement.” The mediator testified that the parties came to her after they reached an informal agreement which she was to reduce to writing. Although nothing was in fact written down, the mediator thought that the parties came to an agreement. Moreover, she stated that she was not a constant participant in the negotiations.
There’s much more to the underlying facts in this case, which is worth reading, including domestic violence and financial disclosure issues. The appellate court reversed the final judgment and remanded the case for a new trial on the issue of division of the marital assets and alimony.
What, if anything, might have been different if the parties’ agreement was reduced to writing and the rules above complied with? Given the lawyer-mediator’s testimony, was this really a mediation? What do you think?
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Tuesday, February 07, 2006
Here’s Florida Legislation You’ll Want To Follow!
In 2005, family court references in the statutes were changed to references to the unified family court model; however, mediation law was not correspondingly changed. This bill redefines mediation in Chapter 44, F.S., to provide for mediation in the unified family court. It reflects the changes created by the passage in 2005 of s. 25.375, F.S., which created the unified family court system and amends s. 44.1011, F.S., to create a definition for “unified family court mediation”. It also makes other technical and corrective changes to mediation law.
A sponsor in the Senate is expected.
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Monday, February 06, 2006
Was Mediation Abused? You Decide.
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Friday, February 03, 2006
“I’m Going To Kill You! Let’s Mediate.”
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Thursday, February 02, 2006
The Sky Is Not The Limit!
The concurring opinion urged the legislature to address the needs of children born into or raised in non-traditional households when a break-up occurs.
I wonder, if someone can waive their right to an attorney during in-custody interrogation or otherwise waive their Fifth Amendment privilege against self-incrimination, can they waive their constitutional right to privacy in a mediation agreement? What do you think?
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Wednesday, February 01, 2006
What Was On The Mind Of A Murderer?
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Tuesday, January 31, 2006
“The Check Is In The Mail!”
Seriously, what’s the agreement drafting lesson for us?
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Monday, January 30, 2006
MEAC Opinion 2005-006 Now Online!
A mediator (who is also an attorney) engaged in an ongoing legal relationship with a third party administrator must not serve as a mediator in cases involving the third party administrator because it is a clear, nonwaivable conflict of interest. A mediator (who is also an attorney) may serve in cases involving a reinsurer, even if some of the mediator’s legal clients utilize the same re-insurer, if the relationship is disclosed and the parties waive any potential conflict because such a relationship is not a clear conflict of interest.
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Monday, January 23, 2006
“Ineffective Assistance Of Mediator”
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Friday, January 20, 2006
A Mediator Testifies
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Wednesday, January 18, 2006
Don’t Read This If You Are Squeamish.
If this were a television program the warning might be something like “For Mature Audiences; Violence”. In an earlier post I wrote about a post-mediation homicide. The trial just began and according to this article from CBS 5: Bay City News Wire the prosecutor’s opening statements present a grim scenario which holds a plethora of lessons for mediators, especially in screening for domestic violence. Another article in The San Mateo Daily News provides additional information. In poker the saying goes “Read ‘em an’ weep!” The morphed saying for mediators could be “Read ‘em [the parties, not the cards] an’ weep! Think! Plan”!
This is serious. Please be careful!
Monday, January 16, 2006
New Continuing Mediator Education Seminars for 2006!
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“I’m Not Sitting There!”
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Friday, January 13, 2006
“Wait For The Cognac!”
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Thursday, January 12, 2006
Rules Are Made To Be Followed!
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Tuesday, January 10, 2006
Safety Is A Concern For Mediators
Florida Rules for Certified and Court-Appointed Mediators, Rule 10.420(b), Conduct of Mediation, Adjournment or Termination, provides that: A mediator shall:
(5) terminate any mediation if the physical safety of any person is endangered by the continuation of mediation.
What about the aftermath – i.e., what happens after the mediation conference? When does the mediator’s ethical obligation end? According to this sad article in The Mercury News, a husband lay in wait for his wife in an elevator after storming out of the mediation session. He allegedly continued the attack even as police arrived. The wife had been denied a restraining order against her husband two weeks before her death.
Do you have any concerns about mediator liability here? Please be careful!
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Monday, January 09, 2006
Mediation and Cultural Diversity – An Example
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Friday, January 06, 2006
Back To Basics – Grammar Is Important!
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Thursday, January 05, 2006
Virtual Visitation – A Tool for Family Mediators
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Wednesday, January 04, 2006
Hunting and Mediation?
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Tuesday, January 03, 2006
Mediating Death-Row Cases
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Monday, January 02, 2006
Mediation Is A Riot!
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Friday, December 30, 2005
Mediators Are “Violence Interrupters”
All to say, my best wishes to you and your families for a Happy, Healthy, Prosperous and, especially, Safe New Year! Thank you for making Florida Mediator a part of your reading this year. “See” you next year – keep smiling!
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Thursday, December 29, 2005
New Multijurisdictional [MJP] Practice Rules Impact Mediation
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Wednesday, December 28, 2005
“Marathon Mediation” – Potential For Coercion
Rule 10.420(b)(2) Conduct of Mediation, Adjournment or Termination provides “A mediator shall adjourn or terminate any mediation which, if continued, would result in unreasonable emotional or monetary costs to the parties. . . .”
Generally, a mediator should not conduct a mediation conference which in any way would appear to coerce any party [but, you knew that!] – this would include the duration of the mediation and whether or not party [or their counsel or another mediation participant] expresses concern about the length of the conference. For instance, would a prolonged mediation conference have the unintended consequence of depriving a party of effective or meaningful representation of counsel?
Take a look at Shultheis v. Gotlin, 2005 Fla. App. LEXIS 20148 [Fla. 5th DCA 2005] for an analogous situation where an appellate issue [it starts on page 6, middle paragraph, of the opinion] involved a jury required to work a “marathon 16-hour workday” and the totality of the circumstances test. What mediation lessons can we learn from this opinion?
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Tuesday, December 27, 2005
What Does Pastrami Have To Do With Mediation?
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Monday, December 26, 2005
More Holiday Fun!
Thank you, too, to Dina for her very nice compliments about Florida Mediator!
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Family Mediation – A New Meaning!
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Friday, December 23, 2005
A Holiday Present For You - If You Can’t Type [Or If You Can]!
(c) Closure. The mediator shall cause the terms of any agreement reached to be memorialized appropriately and discuss with the parties and counsel the process for formalization and implementation of the agreement.
Even though the Committee Notes enlighten us that mediators are “. . . not required to write the agreement themselves”, a mediator may act as a scribe and type the agreement as it is dictated to them by counsel or they will type the terms of the agreement as they develop point by point during the mediation. Can you do two things at the same time, i.e. listen and type [without looking at the keyboard]? Have you attempted this and found Jabberwocky on the screen?
Well, for fun, you might want to print the following paragraph and ask someone to read it out loud to you.
“Aoccdrnig to rscheearch at Cmabrigde Uinervtisy, it deosn't mttaer in waht oredr the ltteers in a wrod are, the olny iprmoatnt tihng is taht the frist and lsat ltteer be at the rghit pclae. The rset can be a toatl mses and you can sitll raed it wouthit a porbelm. Tihs is bcuseae the huamn mnid deos not raed ervey lteter by istlef, but the wrod as a wlohe.”
Even though the letters are jumbled in the paragraph, most people have no trouble reading it! Credits to Robert K. Goral for the paragraph.
Now, wasn’t that fun? Okay, how about interesting? Aren’t we just simply amazing?!?
Enjoy the Holidays and your families; stay safe!
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Wednesday, December 21, 2005
Florida Hurricane Mediation Program Is A Model
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Tuesday, December 20, 2005
Court Is Not Always The Best Way – Mediation Is Better!
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Monday, December 19, 2005
What’s Up With Parenting Coordination?
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Friday, December 16, 2005
Mark Your Calendar!
Enjoy the weekend!
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Thursday, December 15, 2005
Florida Supreme Court Adopts Amendments to Small Claims Rules Referencing Mediation!
The Court adopted new Form 7.321, Notice to Appear for Pretrial Conference/Mediation, as proposed by the ADR Rules and Policy Committee, and agreed to by the Small Claims Rules Committee. This Form provides “[t]he case will not be tried at the Pretrial Conference, but may be mediated at that time. Do not bring witnesses. You must appear in person or by attorney. Whoever appears for a party must have full authority to settle for all amounts from zero to the amount of the claim without further consultation. Failure to comply may result in the imposition of sanctions, including costs, attorney fees, entry of judgment, or dismissal.” The Notice to Appear also contains an explanation of mediation and confidentiality of mediation communications.
The Court also adopted Form 7.350, Corporate Authorization To Allow Employee To Represent Corporation At Any Stage Of Lawsuit, and this includes mediation.
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Wednesday, December 14, 2005
Have You Ever Been Threatened During Mediation?
So, do you think the statute should be changed?
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Tuesday, December 13, 2005
MEAC Opinions 2005-002 and 2005-003 – Now Online!
MEAC Opinion 2005-003: The Mediator Ethics Advisory Committee lacks the jurisdiction to determine whether a mediation should be treated as a negotiation for purposes of sections 447.605(2) and 286.011(3), Florida Statutes. However, if a mediation falls within the scope of the Mediation and Confidentiality and Privilege Act, then all mediation participants are obligated to adhere to its provisions.
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Monday, December 12, 2005
“I’m A Certified Mediator. Am I Ethically Obligated to Report Another Certified Mediator’s Ethical Violations?”
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Thursday, December 08, 2005
Cross-cultural Misunderstandings & Negotiation
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Wednesday, December 07, 2005
“If You Don’t Sign This Post-Nuptial Agreement, I’ll Divorce You!”
Florida Rules for Certified and Court-Appointed Mediators, Rule 10.420[b][4] Conduct of Mediation, Adjournment or Termination, provides, in part, that a mediator shall “terminate a mediation entailing fraud, duress, the absence of bargaining ability, or unconscionability. . . .”
In Zoldan v. Zohlman, 2005 Fla. App. LEXIS 18798 [Fla. 3rd DCA 2005], the Third District Court of Appeal reversed a final judgment declaring a post-nuptial agreement to be invalid because of undue influence. The court held that “mere affection and attachment or a desire to gratify the wishes of one who is esteemed or trusted may not alone be sufficient to amount to undue influence.”
Although this did not involve a mediation conference, the principle is illustrative of what a mediator should think about when considering termination under the above rule.
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Monday, December 05, 2005
The Valueless Apology!
The lawyer’s approach to litigation focused on impugning the integrity of everyone in the legal system, whether judges, justices, attorneys, or expert witnesses, who obstructed the achievement of her goals. I wonder what this lawyer would have to say about mediators!
How did the court determine whether the apology was genuine? Well, you’ll have to read the interesting analysis. All to say, sometimes “I’m sorry” just doesn’t have value.
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P.S. By the way, for most of last week I was presenting my 40 hour Family Mediation Certification Training program and was unable to post to Florida Mediator.